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    Putting Yourself First

    Michal B.L. / 25/05/2021 / 0 Comments

    These are the top four steps you can take, to help you learn how to put yourself first.

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    How To Self Love For Singles

    Michal B.L. / 13/11/2020 / 10 Comments

    One of life’s biggest questions – How to practice self love? Single life has taught me many crucial and life changing lessons – which helped me develop a great relationship with myself. It…

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    Fourth Singleversary

    Michal B.L. / 18/09/2020 / 7 Comments

    When I was younger, I was almost certain that by thirty I would already be married and maybe even have a child or two. I thought that I would at least have a…

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    Chase No One

    Michal B.L. / 03/09/2020 / 23 Comments

    ** check out the notes at the end for a free printable checklist 🙂 Four years ago, I broke up with my last serious, long term boyfriend. I was 26 and for the…

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Where I write about single life in all its glory, and share Single Life Lessons to help you embrace singlehood. I offer tips and advice for a better, happy single life. How to be independent, feel comfortable in your own skin and company, and how not to chase toxic people
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NEW BLOG POST - Important Life Lessons from Women NEW BLOG POST - Important Life Lessons from Women in History These are the top 12, most important life lessons to learn from these 4 women in history, to not only improve and enhance ourselves and our own lives, but the world and humankind as well. FOR THE FULL BLOG POST —> link in bio 🔗 WHAT ABOUT YOU? Have you learnt any of these life lessons? What are the women have you learnt from? What other life lessons have you learnt from them? #womeninhistory #singlelifelessons #singlewomen #singleandhappy #singleinmy30s #singleinyour30s #singlewomanproblems
NEW BLOG POST - How to Improve Your Solo Living Co NEW BLOG POST - How to Improve Your Solo Living Costs These are the top 17 ways & methods to help you improve your solo living costs and save money, when you’re single. 1. Home cooking and meal preparations 2. Water down products 3. Moderate product usage 4. Budget & monitor your expenses 5. Limit your outings 6. Be aware of electricity use 7. Don’t buy if it’s not finished yet 8. Only buy for the week 9. Buy cheaper brands and products 10. Hand-me-downs 11. Charity, thrift & second hand stores 12. Buy reusable products (instead of throwaways) 13. Cut back on luxuries 14. Cancel subscriptions 15. Pay yearly, not monthly 16. Make coffee / tea at home 17. Delete apps from your phone HOW ABOUT YOU? Do you struggle with your solo living costs? How do you cope? #sololiving #livingalone #livingaloneproblems #sololife #sololifestyle #howtolivealone #singlelifeproblems #singlelifestyle #singlelifestruggles
NEW BLOG POST - Dos and Don’ts of Dating Yoursel NEW BLOG POST - Dos and Don’ts of Dating Yourself These are the top 10 dos and don’ts of dating yourself – 5 things you need to stop doing, as well as 5 things you need to start doing, to help you date yourself better, more efficiently. For the full blog post —> 🔗 LINK IN BIO HOW ABOUT YOU? Are you dating yourself? What are your dos and don’ts? #howtodateyourself #datingyourself #dateyourself #selfdate #selfdating #selfrelationship #singlelifeproblems #singlelifeadvice #mblwrites #beingwithyourself #bealone #aloneisntlonely #qualityalonetime #alonetime #enjoyyourowncompany #datingmyself
Self-gifts to help you invest in yourself, which I Self-gifts to help you invest in yourself, which I also love, and helped me in my own journey of embracing my singleness: yes, you are also worth the investment. In a round-about kind of way, this will also enhance your self-worth and confidence. You will teach yourself that you deserve better, and should never settle or allow someone to miss-treat you. 1. Act Like a Lady: Questionable Advice, Ridiculous Opinions, and Humiliating Tales from Three Undignified Women, by Keltie Knight, Becca Tobin & Jac Vanek 2. You Are a Badass Series 4 Books Collection Set by Jen Sincero (You Are a Badass, You Are a Badass at Making Money, You Are a Badass Every Day & Badass Habits) 3. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life, by Mark Manson 4. Muji Candles 5. TONYMOLY I'm Real Sheet Face Masks 6. Embracing Singlehood Journal: 30 Day Challenge for Embracing Singlehood HOW ABOUT YOU? Are you buying yourself a Valentine’s Day gift? What are you getting yourself or your loved ones? #valentinesdaygift #singlevalentinesday #singlesvalentinesday #singlelifeproblems #mblwrites #singleandlonely #singlelifebelike
There likely isn’t a bigger gimmicky day than Va There likely isn’t a bigger gimmicky day than Valentine’s Day. It’s just another excuse to spend money on red, heart shaped things that you don’t need, and for companies to make more money off of us. Love should be celebrated as long as you are fortunate enough to have it - and this is true for any type of love, because there’s more than one and no one is more important than the other, and they should all be celebrated. That’s said, it can be rough to spend Valentine’s Day alone, especially if this is your first one and everyone around you seems to be celebrating. These are my TOP 6 ways to cope with being single on Valentine's Day: 1. See it as the gimmick it is 2. Stay off of social media 3. Celebrate the love you DO have 4. Celebrate yourself & self-love 5. Treat yourself to something nice 6. Just go about your day HOW ABOUT YOU? Do you struggle with being single and alone on Valentine’s Day? How do you cope with it? #singleandhappy #singleisbetter #singleandsad #singlelifeisthebestlife #mblwrites
It takes immense inner-strength to feel good enoug It takes immense inner-strength to feel good enough on your own, not only to celebrate yourself and your self-love, but also not to worry or care about what anyone else will think or say. People who doubt your happiness in your singleness, are usually the ones who are insecure in their own status, and are just jealous of you for owning your life and status. “What will I look like alone? Is it pathetic?” It’s only natural to feel that way and ask yourself these questions, especially on a day like Valentine’s Day. People will always have what to say about it, some of them will even be tactless enough to voice it, but you should only listen to yourself and what’s good for you. If you believe you look good on your own, if you hold yourself with confidence, it will radiate from the inside out. When you focus on just being you and doing what you want, the outside noise won’t penetrate as much, if at all. If you focus on just being you and being happy with yourself, you won’t care as much about insignificant opinions from insignificant people. And remember, people who try to make you feel bad for your status, are just sad and miserable in their own lives, and they’re the ones with the problem. So whether or not you choose to celebrate yourself on Valentine’s Day, or if you can’t help but feel sad for being alone (which is also okay and only natural, because hey, we’re only human) - remember, it’s just one of 365.242199 days in the year, and just like every other day - it too, shall pass. HOW ABOUT YOU? Will you be your own Valentine? Do you hate being single on Valentine’s Day? #myownvalentine #singleandalone #singleneedle #singleaf #singleonvalentinesday #mblwrites
NEW BLOG POST- Gift Ideas for Yourself for Valenti NEW BLOG POST- Gift Ideas for Yourself for Valentine's Day When You’re Single FOR THE FULL BLOG POST—> link in bio These are the top 8 gift ideas for yourself for Valentine’s Day when you’re single + 6 specific products that are perfect Valentine’s Day gifts for yourself and your loved ones. 1. Subscription boxes 2. Gift baskets 3. Loungewear or lingerie 4. Coffee and tea 5. Wine and cheese 6. Books 7. Self-care products 8. A journal and pens HOW ABOUT YOU? What gifts are you getting for yourself and loved ones for Valentine’s Day? #giftsforvalentines #singlesvalentinesday #singleforvalentines #singleforvalentinesday #singleandhappy #mblwrites #singlelifestyle
Are you suffering in your singleness? I created a Are you suffering in your singleness? I created a 30 day challenge for embracing singlehood just for you! This is a 5 week challenge with 30 days + 5 bonus days. Each week is subject to a specific theme, and every day of the week is subject to a sub-theme. These themes are also crucial pillars of learning how to embrace yourself and your singleness. Each week and its theme is also a goal of sorts, and every day of that week is a step towards achieving that goal. Are you ready to start embracing your singlehood and making the most of it? Do you want to start taking advantage of your singleness, instead of wallowing over it? This 30 day challenge for embracing singlehood is the push you need to start loving single life, it will provide you with the tools you need to start living your singleness to the fullest. This challenge is a step-by-step guide of sorts, which will get you out of your comfort zone, “force” you to be proactive and start taking action. “Is this challenge for me?” Are you freshly singled? Or lost somewhere in the middle? Do you want to STOP feeling miserable alone & START feeling stronger and more empowered & independent on your own. If so, this challenge is perfect for you! Ready to grab your own challenge? Head here to start embracing your singlehood TODAY! #embracingsingleness #embracingsinglelife #embraceyourself #mblwrites #singleandmiserable #singlesadlife #singleandlonely #singleandlovingit
There are no good reasons to not take time for you There are no good reasons to not take time for yourself and be single for at least a short period of time. There’s certainly no good reason to regret it. Regret is a waste-full emotion, and won’t only not help you change anything, it will likely make it worse. Instead, use it to do something different, learn from it how to be and do better in the future. Taking the time to be single and be with myself, allowed me the opportunity to build a strong and healthy connection and relationship with myself, as well as become more independent and strong on my own, so I don’t have to constantly rely on anyone else to lift me up and for my happiness. I turned my singleness into my superpower, instead of using it as my downfall and wallowing over it. And it also allowed me the chance to be so strong on my own that I will never settle for just anyone. Nor will I obsess, beg, chase, or wait around for people who don’t deserve me. How can I ever regret the period in my life when I learnt the most valuable life lessons? Now that I have a stable self-relationship, I’m also at a better vantage point to develop and maintain healthy relationships with other people, especially a romantic, one. HOW ABOUT YOU? What are your reasons for not regretting taking your time to be single? #singlelifestruggles #singleandhealing #singleandhappy #singlelifebelike #singleladies #beingsingleisthebest #mblwrites

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