# Michal B. Lehman > Build Your Own Base -- no matter your status. ## Posts - [Why Embracing Singlehood Is the First Step to a Healthy Relationship](https://mblwrites.com/embracing-singlehood-for-a-healthy-relationship/): Why Embracing Singlehood Is the First Step to a Healthy Relationship - [From Me to We: Transitioning from Singlehood to a Healthy Relationship](https://mblwrites.com/singlehood-to-a-healthy-relationship/): Finding love after a long single season? Here’s how to navigate the shift, from singlehood to a healthy relationship – without losing yourself in the process. Introduction: From Solo to Shared – But Still Whole After years of thriving on my own, I didn’t expect love to hit this way in my 30s – grounded, intentional, and honestly… kind of terrifying. The only love I knew was from my 20s, and from before my singlehood journey. While I truly enjoyed my single life, there was still a part of me that wanted and was hoping to find love. Transitioning from […] - [How to Create Deeper Connections Without a Partner](https://mblwrites.com/connections-without-a-partner/): The Best Ways to Create Connections Without a Partner and Overcome Loneliness in Single Life Introduction – The Relationship Myth You’re taught to believe your deepest connection will come from a romantic partner. If you want to feel less lonely, you need to find a relationship. But what if that’s not the whole story? Sure, it can help, but it’s not going to “fix” anything. It will only deepen your loneliness and take you further away from the “solution”. When you do develop strong connections without a partner, you’re also less likely to lose them when you enter a relationship. […] - [35-Year Check-In: Updating My 40 by 40 Bucket List Journey](https://mblwrites.com/35-year-check-in-updating-my-40-by-40-bucket-list-journey/): What I Wanted at 30 vs. What I Want Now – A Mid-30s Bucket List Reflection on Growth, Life Goals, and Dreams to Chase Before 40 {This post may contain affiliate links, which means I make a small commission at NO extra cost to you. See my disclosure for more details.} For my 30th birthday (which feels like just yesterday, but also a lifetime ago), I created a 40 by 40 bucket list. It was not only a way to help me cope with turning 30, but also adding spice to my 30s and getting older. As well as giving me something […] - [I’m in My 30s and Still Single—Is Something Wrong With Me?](https://mblwrites.com/im-in-my-30s-and-still-single-is-something-wrong-with-me/): “I’m in My 30s and Still Single—Is Something Wrong With Me?” How to Shift Your Mindset, Find Purpose, and Embrace Being Single in Your 30s If you’re reading this, chances are you’ve asked yourself this question, too. Perhaps multiple times. You’re probably consumed by these thoughts, even believing them and feeling behind in life. I know this loop well; I was stuck in it for a long time. Always asking myself: “Why am I still single at 30?” Instead of asking myself what I should’ve been asking: “How do I embrace being single in my 30s?” There’s this silent shame, […] - [Self-Love Practices That Enhance Romantic Relationships](https://mblwrites.com/self-love-practices-that-enhance-romantic-relationships/): How Strengthening Your Relationship with Yourself Makes You a Better Partner – These Are the Top Self-Love Practices That Enhance Romantic Relationships No, you don’t need to love yourself for others to love you. Lacking in self-love doesn’t mean you’re unlovable. It does, however, mean you may struggle to accept and believe the love you get. It may also mean you’re seeking love to “feel enough” or “complete”. But if you’re tired of repeating toxic relationship patterns and craving more balance, independence, or self-worth in love… Then these self-love practices that enhance romantic relationships are exactly what you need. You […] - [Why You're Still Lonely as a Single — And How to Change That](https://mblwrites.com/why-youre-still-lonely-as-a-single-and-how-to-change-that/): Discover the real reasons behind your loneliness in singlehood — and learn how to build meaningful connections without needing a relationship. One of the most frequent responses I get is something along the lines of: “Your singlehood’s great, but it’s not the same for me. Why am I so lonely single?” and one of the most common questions I get is: “How to deal with loneliness as a single person?” — So, if you’re also asking yourself “Why You’re Still Lonely as a Single — And How to Change That?” This post is for you. I get it, one of […] - [How to Maintain Your Self-Relationship and Individuality When You’re in a Relationship](https://mblwrites.com/how-to-maintain-your-self-relationship-and-individuality-when-youre-in-a-relationship/): These are the top 9 ways to learn how to maintain your self-relationship and individuality when you’re in a relationship – to make sure you don’t lose yourself in a relationship. In many ways, my singleness prepared me for my relationship and made it better. In others, however, it created challenges that made me struggle to let go of my single lifestyle. Or at least at first. There were even a few times at the beginning of our relationship when I was ready to give up. But we made the effort and worked through it.  At the start of my […] - [30 Day Challenge for Embracing Singlehood](https://mblwrites.com/30-day-challenge-for-embracing-singlehood/): This is a 30 day challenge to help you start embracing your singlehood, and learning how to enjoy and make the most of it, instead of wallowing.  - [Why are You STILL Single?](https://mblwrites.com/why-are-you-still-single/): These are the best ways to cope with the question “Why are you still single?” and how to change your mindset towards it – both when others ask and YOU As someone who was single for 7 years, there’s nothing I hate more than the question, “Why are you still single?” Perhaps only someone asking it. The question, asked the way it usually is, does more harm than good. And the asker likely doesn’t need to know the answer. It’s pretty much pointless – no matter what the response is. But before I embarked on my journey of Embracing Singlehood, […] - [Changing the Consensus of Singles](https://mblwrites.com/changing-the-consensus-of-singles-2/): The top 8 consensuses about singles that need to change – and how to encourage someone who is single instead. Have you ever wondered “Why do people judge me for being single?” For the longest time, I feared singleness. Not only because being alone was daunting, but also because of the shame that came along with it. Needing to tell people that I’m single felt embarrassing. When I was asked, I always felt like it was something I should be ashamed about. And when people asked, they always seemed to feel sorry for me. Intentional or not, they made me […] - [Top Relationship Goals for When You’re Single and Dating](https://mblwrites.com/top-relationship-goals-for-when-youre-singles-and-dating/): These are the top 10 relationship goals for when you’re single and dating, including dating goals examples - to help you date better and find the right person for you. - [How to Embrace Yourself No Matter Your Status](https://mblwrites.com/how-to-embrace-yourself-no-matter-your-status/): These are the top 12 ways to embrace yourself no matter your status, which will help you love yourself better + develop and maintain a strong relationship with yourself.  - [The Ultimate Thailand Travel Guide for Couples in Their 30’s](https://mblwrites.com/the-ultimate-thailand-travel-guide-for-couples-in-their-30s/): Your ultimate guide for a 4-5 week 30+ couple’s trip to Thailand, including a 34-day itinerary and many tips & tricks. In July-August 2024 my boyfriend, Ze’ev and I took our first long-term trip together to Thailand. It was exactly what we needed, and came out even better than we thought. Of course, we also learned a lot during this trip, and it certainly helped us grow much closer together. In this article, I will share with you our 34-day itinerary + tips and tricks we learned along the way. Feel free to change it up and play around with […] - [How to Enjoy Your Own Company](https://mblwrites.com/how-to-enjoy-your-own-company/): These are the top methods to help you learn how to enjoy your own company and like yourself more - [How to Spend Quality Time Alone](https://mblwrites.com/how-to-spend-quality-time-alone-2/): These are the top five methods to help you learn how to spend quality time alone, which will improve your single life and help you feel more comfortable in your own company. - [Emotions that Arise While Being Single](https://mblwrites.com/emotions-that-arise-while-being-single/): In this blog post, I share with you the 3 types of emotions, and 9 difficult emotions that arise while being single, and how to cope with them. - [How to Reduce Stress When You're Single](https://mblwrites.com/how-to-reduce-stress-when-youre-single/): These are the best ways to reduce stress when you’re single: 5 reasons why you may be stressed about being single, 10 quick, immediate ways to reduce your stress & 12 bigger, more significant changes - [How to Be Happily Single](https://mblwrites.com/how-to-be-happily-single/): These are the 5 pillars to help you be happily single, and the 20 ways to develop them - [Perks of Living Alone When You’re Single](https://mblwrites.com/perks-of-living-alone-when-youre-single/): In this blog post, I will share with you the top 12 advantages of living alone, and how you can make the most of it, especially if you’re single.  - [How to Cope in Difficult Times in Life When You’re Single](https://mblwrites.com/how-to-cope-in-difficult-times-in-life-when-youre-single/): In this blog post I will discuss the best ways to help you cope in difficult times in life when you’re single - through reaching out & reaching within yourself - [How to Be Single During the Holidays](https://mblwrites.com/how-to-be-single-during-the-holidays/): In this blog post, I will share with you how to be single during the holidays, and the best methods to shift & refocus your mindset. - [How a Healthy Self-Relationship Can Help You Develop a Healthy Romantic Relationship](https://mblwrites.com/how-a-healthy-self-relationship-can-help-you-develop-a-healthy-romantic-relationship/): These are the top 12 ways how a healthy self-relationship can help you develop a healthy romantic relationship - [Top Habits and Random Tips, Tricks & Advice for a Fulfilling Single Life](https://mblwrites.com/top-habits-and-tips-for-a-fulfilling-single-life/): These are the top habits and random tips, tricks & advice for a fulfilling single life, to help you thrive and make the most of it. - [How to Cope With Loneliness When Travelling Alone](https://mblwrites.com/how-to-cope-with-loneliness-when-travelling-alone/): These are the top 12 ways to learn how to cope with loneliness when travelling alone, and start thriving instead, as well as making the most of your solo travels and trips. - [33 Important Life Lessons I Learned While Being Single: Reflections on Relationships, Personal Growth, and Embracing Solitude](https://mblwrites.com/33-important-life-lessons-i-learned-while-being-single-reflections-on-relationships-personal-growth-and-embracing-solitude/): What I learnt from being single: 33 important life lessons I learned while being single that helped me embrace myself, my singlehood and live my BEST single life. - [The Power of Connections: How to Overcome Loneliness When You’re Single](https://mblwrites.com/the-power-of-connections-how-to-overcome-loneliness/): These are the top three types of connections you need, and the 12 methods to develop them,  to help you overcome loneliness when you’re single, and thrive in your singlehood. - [Top Self-Dates that Will Help You Feel More Comfortable Alone](https://mblwrites.com/top-self-dates-that-will-help-you-feel-more-comfortable-alone/): These are the top 15 self-dates that will help you feel more comfortable alone, learn how to enjoy your own company and presence, as well as embrace yourself and your singleness. - [Top Daily Self-Care Methods When You're Single](https://mblwrites.com/top-daily-self-care-methods-when-youre-single/): These are the top daily self-care methods when you're single to integrate into your regular, daily routines, for a better single life.  - [A Solo Traveller’s Guide to Porto](https://mblwrites.com/a-solo-travellers-guide-to-porto/): This blog post is a solo traveller’s guide to Porto - from why, when and how to travel, to what to do and where to go, and more.  - [Top 10 Resolutions for When You’re 30 & Single](https://mblwrites.com/top-10-resolutions-for-when-youre-30-single/): These are the top 10 resolutions for when you’re 30 & single, as well as the best ways to cope with it, and reasons why being single in your 30’s is a gift. - [Reasons Why You Need to Embrace Singlehood](https://mblwrites.com/reasons-why-you-need-to-embrace-singlehood/): These are the top 10 reasons why you need and should embrace your singlehood, and how singleness is a gift. - [Reasons Why You Need to Date Yourself First](https://mblwrites.com/reasons-why-you-need-to-date-yourself-first/): These are the top 10 reasons why you need to date yourself first, and how it can improve your singlehood and self-relationship. - [Important Life Lessons from Women in History](https://mblwrites.com/important-life-lessons-from-women-in-history/): These are the top 12, most important life lessons to learn from these 4 women in history, to not only improve and enhance ourselves and our own lives, but the world and humankind as well.  - [How to Improve Your Solo Living Costs](https://mblwrites.com/how-to-improve-your-solo-living-costs/): These are the top 16 ways & methods to help you improve your solo living costs and save money, when you’re single.  - [Dos and Don'ts of Dating Yourself](https://mblwrites.com/dos-and-donts-of-dating-yourself/): These are the top 10 do’s and don’ts of dating yourself - 5 things you need to stop doing, as well as 5 things you need to start doing, to help you date yourself better, more efficiently.  - [Gift Ideas for Yourself for Valentine's Day When You’re Single](https://mblwrites.com/gift-ideas-for-yourself-for-valentines-day-when-youre-single/): These are the top 8 gift ideas for yourself for Valentine's Day when you’re single + 6 specific products that are perfect Valentine's Day gifts for yourself and your loved ones.  - [How to Spend Valentine’s When You’re Single](https://mblwrites.com/how-to-spend-valentines-when-youre-single/): These are the top 20 ways you can spend Valentine’s when you’re single, and the BEST things singles can do on Valentine's day. - [Tips & Tricks for Travelling Alone](https://mblwrites.com/tips-tricks-for-travelling-alone/): These are the top 35 tips, tricks and advice for travelling alone, especially if it’s your first solo trip, to help you make the most of it and make it the BEST it can be.  - [How to Stop Feeling Behind in Life When You're Single & 30](https://mblwrites.com/stop-feeling-behind-in-life-single-30/): How to stop feeling behind in life when you’re single and thirty - Of timelines, expiry dates and time stamps. The top 5 methods and ways to start owning your own timeline, and stop feeling behind in life. - [How to Stop Chasing Toxic People](https://mblwrites.com/how-to-stop-chasing-toxic-people-2/): Top 8 questions you should ask yourself to know if you’re chasing someone, and top 10 methods to stop chasing these toxic people.  - [New Year’s Resolutions for Your Single Life](https://mblwrites.com/new-years-resolutions-for-your-single-life/): These are the top 15 New Year’s Resolutions for your singlehood, to help you live your best single life and take advantage of it.  - [How to Spend NYE When You're Single](https://mblwrites.com/how-to-spend-nye-when-youre-single/): What to do for New Years when you're single - these are the top 15 things you can do on New Year's Eve on your own, or with friends and family, when you’re single.  - [How to Overcome Loneliness When Living Alone](https://mblwrites.com/how-to-overcome-loneliness-when-living-alone/): These are the top 8 methods and ways to cope and overcome the loneliness of living alone when you’re single.  - [Guided Tour Self-Date](https://mblwrites.com/guided-tour-self-date/): What to do on a guided tour self-date – your guide for a great date you can create for yourself, to help you build a stronger self-connection and relationship.  - [How to Plan Your First Solo Trip](https://mblwrites.com/how-to-plan-your-first-solo-trip/): These are the top 6 steps to help you build and plan for your first solo trip, as well as prepare yourself for it. - [Single Life Rules You Should Implement NOW](https://mblwrites.com/single-life-rules-you-should-implement-now/): These are the top 8 single life rules you should implement in your single life, to help you improve and enhance its value and quality. - [Tips, Tricks & Advice for Living Alone](https://mblwrites.com/tips-tricks-advice-for-living-alone/): Top 7 tips & tricks to help you improve and overcome struggles in your single life when you’re living alone. - [How to Start Dating Yourself](https://mblwrites.com/how-to-start-dating-yourself/): How to Start Dating Yourself - Five steps to help you embark on your journey of dating yourself, and to help you build a stronger self relationship and connection. - [Solo Travel - Top 6 Cafes to Work From in Innsbruck + Tips](https://mblwrites.com/top-6-cafes-to-work-from-in-innsbruck-tips/): These are the top 6 cafes in Innsbruck to work from or just sit and write or read, when you’re travelling and working remotely. - [Top 12 fun, easy & feel good things to do alone to help you enjoy your own company](https://mblwrites.com/top-12-fun-easy-feel-good-things-to-do-alone-to-help-you-enjoy-your-own-company/): 12 simple and easy activities to do alone, which will help you enjoy your own company, build a stronger self-connection and relationship, and grow closer to yourself.  - [How to Self Care With Journaling for Singles](https://mblwrites.com/how-to-self-care-with-journaling-for-singles/): These are the top ways and methods of using writing and journaling as a form of self-care, and as a therapeutic tool, for a better single life.  - [Day at the Museum Self Date](https://mblwrites.com/day-at-the-museum-self-date/): Your guide for a great date you can create for yourself, to help you build a stronger self-connection and relationship.  - [Top Productive Methods For A Fulfilling Single Life - PART 2](https://mblwrites.com/top-productive-methods-for-a-fulfilling-single-life-part-2/): These are additional five top ways, activities and experiences for a more productive, full and lively single life. PART 2. - [Travelling & Working Single Woman in Innsbruck during COVID](https://mblwrites.com/travelling-working-single-woman-in-innsbruck-during-covid/): Tips, tricks & advice for the traveling and working single women in Innsbruck during COVID. - [Top Productive Methods For A Better, More Fulfilling Single Life](https://mblwrites.com/top-productive-methods-for-a-better-more-fulfilling-single-life/): These are the top four ways, activities and experiences for a more productive, full and lively single life. This is part one of two, which will be published on - 21/09/2022 - [Top Dating Lessons to Learn From The Tinder Swindler](https://mblwrites.com/top-dating-lessons-to-learn-from-the-tinder-swindler/): These are the top 6 dating lessons to learn from the Tinder Swindler, for singles and anyone using any dating app. - [Top Things to Do Alone in Salzburg](https://mblwrites.com/top-things-to-do-alone-in-salzburg/): Traveling alone in Salzburg - These are the top 7 things to alone in Salzburg, for solo travelers. - [Top 8 things to do on Valentine’s Day for Singles](https://mblwrites.com/top-8-things-to-do-on-valentines-day-for-singles/): These are the top 8 things to do on Valentine’s Day when you’re single and alone. - [Setting New Year's Resolutions for A Better Single Life](https://mblwrites.com/setting-new-years-resolutions-for-a-better-single-life/): Setting New Year's Resolutions for A Better Single Life - Setting new year’s resolutions that will help you improve your single life and embrace yourself. - [Top 4 Cafes in Salzburg to Work From](https://mblwrites.com/top-4-cafes-in-salzburg-to-work-from/): Best cafes for solo travelers. These are the top 4 cafes in Salzburg to work from or just sit and write or read, when you're traveling and working remotely. - [Travelling Single Women in Salzburg](https://mblwrites.com/traveling-single-women-in-salzburg/): Tips, tricks & advice for the traveling and working single women in Salzburg during COVID. - [Alone at Airports, Stations and Trains](https://mblwrites.com/alone-at-airports-stations-and-trains/): These are my top tips and advice for solo travellers when alone at airports, stations and trains. One of the biggest predicaments for solo travel is during transportation from one destination to another. Whether it’s coping with the anxiety of travelling all alone or travelling in general, the anxiety of figuring out the way. Or the logistics of timing and having to watch over your belongings at all times. And as simple as what to do, where to do it and how to do things while waiting or transporting. In this post I will talk about my top tips for […] - [Top Things to Do Alone in Vienna](https://mblwrites.com/top-things-to-do-alone-in-vienna/): Traveling alone in Vienna - These are the top 6 things to alone in Vienna, for solo travelers. - [Top Daily Self Care Methods](https://mblwrites.com/top-daily-self-care-methods/): These are the top daily self care methods to integrate into your regular, daily routines, for a better single life.  - [Day at the Zoo Self Date](https://mblwrites.com/day-at-the-zoo-self-date/): How to create a perfect day at the zoo Self Date for yourself, in seven simple and easy steps. {This post may contain affiliate links, which means I make a small commission at NO extra cost to you. See my disclosure for more details.} If you ask me, this is probably the perfect self-date, or even romantic date, or date with a friend. It is a well rounded date. You’re outside in the fresh again, in what usually feels like nature. It’s a wonderful place for a nice picnic. And most of all – you get to see some animals. There’s just […] - [Top 8 Cafes in Vienna to Work From](https://mblwrites.com/top-8-cafes-in-vienna-to-work-from/): Best cafes for solo travelers. These are the top 8 cafes in Vienna to work from, when you're traveling and working remotely. - [How to Shift Your Mindset](https://mblwrites.com/how-to-shift-your-mindset/): These are the reasons why, and the top ways to shift your mindset. Which will help you embrace yourself and your singleness, and take control of your own life. {This post may contain affiliate links, which means I make a small commission at NO extra cost to you. See my disclosure for more details.} Having the right mindset is a crucial part of being your best self, and upgrading your life. If you want to be the best you can and do the best, make the most of your life… You need to learn how to stop focusing on all the wrong […] - [Traveling Single Women in Vienna](https://mblwrites.com/traveling-single-women-in-vienna/): Tips, tricks & advice for the traveling and working single women in Vienna during COVID. In this post: Now that we’ve learned how to create a packing list and how to pack efficiently, it’s time to get travelling! It all started for me with just wanting to travel, to get out of my country and start seeing more of the world. I started working from home anyway, so why not travel while doing this? I looked up flights and booked the one that was most affordable and desirable. Which was Vienna! I had no idea what to expect and how […] - [How to Pack for a Solo Eurotrip](https://mblwrites.com/how-to-pack-for-a-solo-eurotrip/): These are my top tips & tricks to help you learn how to pack for a solo Eurotrip, properly and efficiently. - [Dos and Don'ts of Dating Yourself When You're Single](https://mblwrites.com/how-to-date-yourself/): These are the top 10 do’s and don’ts of dating yourself, which will help you learn how to date yourself properly. - [Removing Toxic People From Your Life](https://mblwrites.com/removing-toxic-people-from-your-life/): These are my top 10 methods for removing toxic people from your life, to help you embrace yourself and your singleness. In two of my previous blog posts I wrote both about chasing toxic people in romantic relationships, or in dating… And also chasing people in platonic relationships, or friendships. In both blogs I discuss different methods to identify toxic people and relationships… And how to cleanse them from your life. In this blog post I will deep dive further into the top 10 steps that will help you remove and cleanse them from your life.  Just like most processes […] - [Packing List for Solo Euro-Trip](https://mblwrites.com/packing-list-for-solo-euro-trip/): How to create a proper packing list for a solo Euro-trip (to any one European country or multiple countries). - [Top Self Care Essentials for Singles](https://mblwrites.com/top-self-care-essentials-for-singles/): These are the top six self care essentials for singles and their benefits, to help you embrace yourself and live your best single life. - [Stroll & Ice-cream Self Date](https://mblwrites.com/solo-stroll-ice-cream/): How to create a perfect Stroll & Ice-cream Self Date for yourself, in six simple and easy steps. - [How to Spend Quality Time Alone](https://mblwrites.com/how-to-spend-quality-time-alone/): These are the top five methods to help you learn how to spend quality time alone, which will improve your single life and help you feel more comfortable in your own company. - [TheraBox “Tropics” July 2021 Subscription Box Unboxing](https://mblwrites.com/therabox-tropics-july-2021-subscription-box-unboxing/): Unboxing the TheraBox “Tropics” July 2021 Subscription Box - full review and closeup pictures of all the products that came in the box. + Coupon Code - [Home Cooked Dinner Self-Date](https://mblwrites.com/home-cooked-dinner-self-date/): These are six easy steps for you to create your own home cooked dinner self date, to help you spend quality alone time and learn how to be more comfortable with yourself. - [Building Better Relationships by Embracing Singlehood](https://mblwrites.com/building-better-relationships-by-embracing-singlehood/): Top five life lessons singlehood teaches that make you better at building other relationships in your life. - [Best Personal Development Plan](https://mblwrites.com/best-personal-development-plan/): Top 10 methods and ways to enhance your single life, and create the best personal development plan to level up and upgrade yourself. - [Arts & Crafts Self Date](https://mblwrites.com/arts-crafts-self-date/): These are five easy steps for you to create your own arts & crafts self date, to help you spend quality alone time. This is by far my all time favourite date. I’ve always loved doing creative projects, I love doing arts & crafts, especially if they’re DIY ones. Getting your creative juices flowing on this date with yourself, is a great and productive way to spend some quality alone time. Which is super crucial when dating yourself – the time you spend with yourself needs to be valuable and even better, if it makes you feel productive. In addition, […] - [Positive Habits to Enhance Your Single Life](https://mblwrites.com/positive-habits-to-enhance-your-single-life/): Top 20 positive habits to enhance your single life - there are the best habits you need to implement in your life. - [How to Stop Feeling Behind in Life When You’re Single and Thirty](https://mblwrites.com/how-to-stop-feeling-behind-in-life-when-youre-single-and-thirty/): Of timelines, expiry dates and time stamps. The top 5 things you need to stop doing and top 5 things you need to start doing to own your own timeline, and stop feeling behind in life. - [Coping With Single Life Anxiety](https://mblwrites.com/coping-with-single-life-anxiety/): These are the top six fears of being single and thirty. And 5 life changes you can make to help you learn how to cope with single life anxiety, when you’re single and thirty. - [Solo Picnic Self-Date](https://mblwrites.com/solo-picnic-date/): These are seven easy ideas for you to create your own solo picnic date, to help you spend quality alone time. One of the biggest, most prominent problems that appears when single, is facing yourself. When freshly singled, you suddenly have so much more time to spend in your own company, with your own mind and thoughts. Which I know first hand can be quite daunting. ** check out the notes at the end for a free printable solo picnic date checklist 🙂 Today I am at a place where I am mostly comfortable with myself. And I say mostly, […] - [How to Do Single and Thirty the Right Way](https://mblwrites.com/how-to-do-single-and-thirty-the-right-way/): These are the top five ways that will guide and teach you how to do single and thirty “the right way”. In this blog post: Let me start off by saying that there is no right way to live your life in general, and single life specifically. There is only the right way for you, or at least the better way, because I don’t believe that you can ever live it 100%. Accepting that is also an important part of life, your journey and your growth. I posted on Instagram not long ago about the importance of making plans, but […] - [Setting Goals When You're Single and Thirty](https://mblwrites.com/setting-goals-when-youre-single-and-thirty/): About setting goals when you're single and thirty - what are the top goals you need to set, and how to set them. - [Home Alone Movie Date Night](https://mblwrites.com/home-movie-night-date/): How to create a perfect home alone movie date night for yourself, in five simple and easy steps. In this blog post: Going to the cinema alone is something that I have wanted to try out for quite a while now, but never had the courage to. Ever since I started this blog, and even more so since I focused on writing about single life… I have gained more courage and finally felt ready to go for it. 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It was all […] - [Reaping All the Benefits of Single Life](https://mblwrites.com/reaping-all-the-benefits-of-single-life/): These are the top 5 ways to help you reap the benefits of single life, and maximize the perks. In this blog post: If done right, single life has many perks and benefits that will upgrade your life, and help you be the best version of yourself. In last week’s blog post, I wrote about the top 10 perks of being single, and how to focus on them. In this week’s post I want to share with you my methods of maximizing those perks. And how to  When I was freshly singled, I was so devoid of energy and just […] - [Home Spa Day Self-Date](https://mblwrites.com/home-spa-day-self-date/): An easy guide for a relaxing home spa day self-date to help you spend some quality alone time, and embrace yourself and your singleness. {This post may contain affiliate links, which means I make a small commission at NO extra cost to you. See my disclosure for more details.} In this blog post: In my blog post “Best Ways to Practice Self Care” I wrote about the top five methods of self care, you should be incorporating into your life. Throughout the post, I wrote about the importance of self care in general, and each method specifically. 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Throughout this year of writing about single life and all of the life lessons I learned from being single… Have helped me embrace my life and my singleness even further. Writing about it and breaking it down into blog posts and lists, have helped me realize just how far I’ve come and how much I’ve learned. And getting to share it all with […] - [Ways to Look at the Bright Side of Single](https://mblwrites.com/ways-to-look-at-the-bright-side-of-single/): These are the top 10 ways to help you focus on the bright side of being single. - [The Biggest Single Life Worries](https://mblwrites.com/the-biggest-single-life-worries/): These are the biggest single life worries that one may have and be concerned with, and how best to face and cope with them. - [Top Tips For Overcoming Fear of Single Life](https://mblwrites.com/top-tips-for-overcoming-fear-of-single-life/): These are the five top tips and tricks for overcoming the fear of single life and loneliness. How to face the fear of singleness and being lonely – and use it to do, and be better. Fear is an interesting thing, because more often than not, it prevents you from doing the things, and making the changes that are best for you. For example, I overstayed my welcome in a relationship that was bad for me. I did so out of fear of being alone, but turns out, being alone was exactly what I needed. At the time I was […] ## Pages - [Payment](https://mblwrites.com/airwallex_payment_method_all/) - [Payment](https://mblwrites.com/airwallex_payment_method_wechat/) - [Payment](https://mblwrites.com/airwallex_payment_method_card/) - [The Single Life Starter Guide](https://mblwrites.com/the-single-life-starter-guide/): Your Go-To Guide for Embracing Single Life, Deepening Self-Connection, and Finding Fulfilment from Within Whether you’re freshly singled, lost along the journey, or trying to find yourself while in a relationship – these are the top articles to help you on your way. 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