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    How to Stop Feeling Behind in Life When You’re Single and Thirty

    Michal B.L. / 27/07/2021 / 4 Comments

    Of timelines, expiry dates and time stamps. The top 5 things you need to stop doing and top 5 things you need to start doing to own your own timeline, and stop feeling…

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Where I write about single life in all its glory, and share Single Life Lessons to help you embrace singlehood. I offer tips and advice for a better, happy single life. How to be independent, feel comfortable in your own skin and company, and how not to chase toxic people
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It takes immense inner-strength to feel good enoug It takes immense inner-strength to feel good enough on your own, not only to celebrate yourself and your self-love, but also not to worry or care about what anyone else will think or say. People who doubt your happiness in your singleness, are usually the ones who are insecure in their own status, and are just jealous of you for owning your life and status. “What will I look like alone? Is it pathetic?” It’s only natural to feel that way and ask yourself these questions, especially on a day like Valentine’s Day. People will always have what to say about it, some of them will even be tactless enough to voice it, but you should only listen to yourself and what’s good for you. If you believe you look good on your own, if you hold yourself with confidence, it will radiate from the inside out. When you focus on just being you and doing what you want, the outside noise won’t penetrate as much, if at all. If you focus on just being you and being happy with yourself, you won’t care as much about insignificant opinions from insignificant people. And remember, people who try to make you feel bad for your status, are just sad and miserable in their own lives, and they’re the ones with the problem. So whether or not you choose to celebrate yourself on Valentine’s Day, or if you can’t help but feel sad for being alone (which is also okay and only natural, because hey, we’re only human) - remember, it’s just one of 365.242199 days in the year, and just like every other day - it too, shall pass. HOW ABOUT YOU? Will you be your own Valentine? Do you hate being single on Valentine’s Day? #myownvalentine #singleandalone #singleneedle #singleaf #singleonvalentinesday #mblwrites
NEW BLOG POST- Gift Ideas for Yourself for Valenti NEW BLOG POST- Gift Ideas for Yourself for Valentine's Day When You’re Single FOR THE FULL BLOG POST—> link in bio These are the top 8 gift ideas for yourself for Valentine’s Day when you’re single + 6 specific products that are perfect Valentine’s Day gifts for yourself and your loved ones. 1. Subscription boxes 2. Gift baskets 3. Loungewear or lingerie 4. Coffee and tea 5. Wine and cheese 6. Books 7. Self-care products 8. A journal and pens HOW ABOUT YOU? What gifts are you getting for yourself and loved ones for Valentine’s Day? #giftsforvalentines #singlesvalentinesday #singleforvalentines #singleforvalentinesday #singleandhappy #mblwrites #singlelifestyle
Are you suffering in your singleness? I created a Are you suffering in your singleness? I created a 30 day challenge for embracing singlehood just for you! This is a 5 week challenge with 30 days + 5 bonus days. Each week is subject to a specific theme, and every day of the week is subject to a sub-theme. These themes are also crucial pillars of learning how to embrace yourself and your singleness. Each week and its theme is also a goal of sorts, and every day of that week is a step towards achieving that goal. Are you ready to start embracing your singlehood and making the most of it? Do you want to start taking advantage of your singleness, instead of wallowing over it? This 30 day challenge for embracing singlehood is the push you need to start loving single life, it will provide you with the tools you need to start living your singleness to the fullest. This challenge is a step-by-step guide of sorts, which will get you out of your comfort zone, “force” you to be proactive and start taking action. “Is this challenge for me?” Are you freshly singled? Or lost somewhere in the middle? Do you want to STOP feeling miserable alone & START feeling stronger and more empowered & independent on your own. If so, this challenge is perfect for you! Ready to grab your own challenge? Head here to start embracing your singlehood TODAY! #embracingsingleness #embracingsinglelife #embraceyourself #mblwrites #singleandmiserable #singlesadlife #singleandlonely #singleandlovingit
There are no good reasons to not take time for you There are no good reasons to not take time for yourself and be single for at least a short period of time. There’s certainly no good reason to regret it. Regret is a waste-full emotion, and won’t only not help you change anything, it will likely make it worse. Instead, use it to do something different, learn from it how to be and do better in the future. Taking the time to be single and be with myself, allowed me the opportunity to build a strong and healthy connection and relationship with myself, as well as become more independent and strong on my own, so I don’t have to constantly rely on anyone else to lift me up and for my happiness. I turned my singleness into my superpower, instead of using it as my downfall and wallowing over it. And it also allowed me the chance to be so strong on my own that I will never settle for just anyone. Nor will I obsess, beg, chase, or wait around for people who don’t deserve me. How can I ever regret the period in my life when I learnt the most valuable life lessons? Now that I have a stable self-relationship, I’m also at a better vantage point to develop and maintain healthy relationships with other people, especially a romantic, one. HOW ABOUT YOU? What are your reasons for not regretting taking your time to be single? #singlelifestruggles #singleandhealing #singleandhappy #singlelifebelike #singleladies #beingsingleisthebest #mblwrites
You don’t lack self love because you’re single You don’t lack self love because you’re single and you’re not single because you lack self love, in fact your relationship status has little to do with the love you do or don’t have for yourself. Your singlehood, however, is the ideal time to start working on your self-love. To build, maintain and grow a healthy, deep connection and love for yourself. FOLLOW @mblwrites & @singlelifelessons for more tips, tricks & advice for embracing yourself & your singleness, and building a strong, deep & healthy self-relationship. #singleandlovingit #loveyou #loveyourselffirst #selflovejourney #beyourbestself
NEW BLOG POST - How to Spend Valentine’s When Yo NEW BLOG POST - How to Spend Valentine’s When You’re Single For the full blog post —> LINK IN BIO FOLLOW @mblwrites & @singlelifelessons for more tips, tricks & advice for embracing yourself & your singleness, and building a strong, deep & healthy self-relationship. These are the top 20 ways you can spend Valentine’s when you’re single, and the BEST things singles can do on Valentine’s day. Love can and should be celebrated every single day of the year. And every type of love should be celebrated – platonic and romantic love, as well as your own self-love, which is far too often overlooked and neglected. If you’re asking yourself… “How do I get over being alone on Valentine’s day?” The answer is – just do something with yourself on this day that will help you appreciate your single status and enjoy it. Do something that celebrates it, your self-relationship and self-love. HOW ABOUT YOU? Do you struggle with being alone on Valentine’s Day? what do you plan on doing? #singlesvalentine #singlevalentinesday #singleforever #singleforvalentines #singleonvalentinesday #singlelifeproblems #singleandsad #singlelifesucks
30 Day Challenge for Embracing Singlehood A 30 da 30 Day Challenge for Embracing Singlehood A 30 day challenge to help you start embracing your singlehood, learn how to enjoy & make the most of it, instead of wallowing. Weekly Themes: Week 1 - Creating new, healthy habits Week 2 - Appreciating & being thankful for what you have Week 3 - Cleansing & decluttering your life Week 4 - Filling your life Week 5 - Reflecting & Manifesting Daily themes: Day 1 - Journaling Day 2 - Rituals: Taking a moment Day 3 - Friendships Day 4 - Detox Day 5 - Get out of the house & go outside Day 6 - Self date Day 7 - Activity This is a 5 week challenge with 30 days + 5 bonus days. Each week is subject to a specific theme, and every day of the week is subject to a sub-theme. These themes are also crucial pillars of learning how to embrace yourself and your singleness. Each week and its theme is also a goal of sorts, and every day of that week is a step towards achieving that goal. Are you ready to start embracing your singlehood and making the most of it? Do you want to start taking advantage of your singleness, instead of wallowing over it? This 30 day challenge for embracing singlehood is the push you need to start loving single life, it will provide you with the tools you need to start living your singleness to the fullest. This challenge is a step-by-step guide of sorts, which will get you out of your comfort zone, “force” you to be proactive and start taking action. "Is this challenge for me?" Are you freshly singled? Or lost somewhere in the middle? Do you want to STOP feeling miserable alone& START feeling stronger and more empowered & independent on your own. If so, this challenge is perfect for you! Ready to grab your own challenge? Head here to start embracing your singlehood TODAY! HOW ABOUT YOU? Do you struggle with embracing your singlehood? what do you struggle with most? #embracingsingleness #singlelifestruggles #mysinglelife #singlegirllife #sololifestyle #stayingsingle #singlelifeisthebestlife #newlysingle #singleagain #singleandfabulous #mysinglelife #howtobesingle #singleforareason #foreversingle #singleaf #singlegirlstruggles #singlegirlslife #singlegirlstatus #singlegal #happysinglelife #happysingle
A 30 day challenge to help you start embracing you A 30 day challenge to help you start embracing your singlehood, learn how to enjoy & make the most of it, instead of wallowing. The daily themes are the steps towards the main weekly goal & build up towards the monthly goal, of learning how to start embracing your singlehood. Each weekly goal is broken down into 7 days, to make it easier and simpler to achieve. The daily themes are the same every week, but are adapted to each week’s main theme. Every daily theme is also an inseparable part of my own journey to embracing myself & my singleness & will help you do the same. Day 1 - Journaling The daily goal: Organise your thoughts & feelings, put things in perspective, identify focal points, emphasise what works & what doesn’t, you can go back and reflect. Day 2 - Rituals: Taking a moment The daily goal: create a system that is easier to work with, a break from reality, spend quality alone time, take a moment out of your hectic schedule & break your routine. Day 3 - Friendships The daily goal: create a strong social life, have human interactions, build a strong support system & create strong, healthy connections. Day 4 - Detox The daily goal: get rid of, or minimise bad, negative habits & free up space to create positive habits, improve your mental health & overall well being, remove negativity & spread more positivity in your life. Day 5 - Get out of the house & go outside The daily goal: get your body moving, soak in sunshine, fresh air & nature, prevent being stuck at home all day, spend quality alone time, feel less abandoned & disconnected from the world. Day 6 - Self date The daily goal: feel less awkward in your own company & more comfortable with yourself, spend quality alone time, build a stronger self-connection & start to look forward to your alone time, not dread it. Day 7 - Activity The daily goal: take action in your life, be more productive, improve the quality & value of your life, feel like you’re doing something of substance with yourself & your life. HOW ABOUT YOU? What steps are you taking to help you and your singlehood? #embraceyourself #embracingsingleness #embracesingleness #mblsinglelife
This is a 5 week challenge with 30 days + 5 bonus This is a 5 week challenge with 30 days + 5 bonus days. Each week is subject to a specific theme. And each day of the week is subject to a sub-theme. Each week of the challenge is defined and characterised by a certain theme, which is represented in the tasks of each day. Every theme also builds upon the previous ones, and strengthens the base for the next ones to come. Each week and its theme is also a goal of sorts, and every day of that week is a step towards achieving that goal. They are the top 5 pillars of sorts that stood out the most in my whole process of learning how to love myself and my singleness. Week 1 - Creating new, healthy habits This week’s main goal: Building your base. Learning how to create new, positive habits and actually starting to create a few of the top positive habits. Week 2 - Appreciating & being thankful for what you have This week’s main goal: Shifting your mindset. Learning how to appreciate what you have, being thankful for it, who you are and what you have. Week 3 - Cleansing & decluttering your life This week’s main goal: Remove excess & harmful people and things from your life. Cleansing your mind, body, soul & physical surroundings of anything toxic & harmful, which hinder your progress. Week 4 - Filling your life This week’s main goal: building a strong structure, by filling your life with god, positive & productive things & people. How to fill your life properly & starting to fill it up better. Week 5 - Reflecting & Manifesting This week’s main goal: Solidifying your journey & preparing for the future. Learning how to reflect on all you’ve been through & your progress. How to draw conclusions & resolutions from your process. And how to implement them in your life going forth. HOW ABOUT YOU? Do you struggle with embracing your singleness? what do you struggle with most? #howtobesingle #singlelifechallenge #embracingsingleness #embraceyourself #mblwrites #30daychallenge

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